Some people never change no matter what you do. This is fine because people have to change on their own time when they are ready. You cannot force people to heal. Some people try to change others and demand they… Read More »Some People Never Change(here’s what you do)
People have all sorts of needs and wants. Sometimes, we think other people should be the source of our happiness but this is a grave mistake. As it’s no one’s job to make us happy. I want you to imagine,… Read More »See Yourself From Their POV
Looking at others and seeing others as defective or damaged is very easy. This is what most people do when they are in a social group especially with newcomers. First most people are locked in their own POV(point of view)… Read More »Acceptance Is The Best Medicine
Most people try to convince people in ways that are clearly disrespectful. The art of persuasion is to respect the free will of the other person while convincing them what you are saying is for their benefit and in their… Read More »Ego Free Persuasion
One hack that is not very “sexy” to get people to do what you want is to show people you care. A lot of people spend plenty of time trying to learn what to say and what to do they… Read More »The Forgotten Influential Hack: Show People You Care
Cognitive Dissonance – Contradicting Beliefs Cognitive dissonance occurs when a thought, idea, concept, or belief contradicts an already existing belief. For example, if you believe in Santa Claus, and someone disagrees you might get triggered. The old belief X =… Read More »Cognitive Dissonance – Contradicting Beliefs
Most people lead in with their needs, wants, and desires. But, consider this is the strategy everyone is doing in their lives while talking to other people. This may work well with people who you have deep rapport with, but… Read More »They Will Do Anything You Desire!
Avoid convincing people consciously. Conscious learning is the most awkward and most stress form of learning. When in doubt make it as easy as possible for the person who is listening to get what you are saying, otherwise, they is… Read More »Easy Conscious Seduction
Some people like to make their lives difficult. Everything has to be complex or perfect in every single way. But, human nature, is very simple, and far more simpler than most people would imagine. It very rarely has to do… Read More »Make It Easy
It shows people you don’t get them. It makes them feel like you are against them. No one wants to speak to people who disagree with them all the time. This isn’t about people pleasing, but friendship is about a… Read More »Why being disagreeable is unattractive – Davinci Neptune