What is presence? Presence is something that is hard to put our finger on, but we all know when someone has it and someone doesn’t. Here in this article, we will be introducing what presence is and how to create it. While reading this article be sure to clear your mind of all lingering thoughts that are running in the background somewhere way over there. The benefits of presence is astounding. People with strong presence tend to attract others to themselves MUCH MORE easily than those without presence.
What is Presence
Presence can be defined as a sort of “energy” that is very compelling. People want to date them, speak to them, invite them to parties and are pulled towards their direction. You likely notice during a conversation when someone is into the conversation. They have a sort of engaged look, and the signals they are sending feel “positive.” In fact, presence is not just when you are talking to someone. Presence is also when the person is NOT speaking. They have a strong magnetic aura that compels people to them. All this can be done WITHOUT even saying a single word. In a moment I’ll mention to you the mysteries and secrets of developing a strong presence.
Is that something you wish you can get more of?
How To Improve Your Presence
Developing your presence is a wonderful skill to improve. The benefits of increasing your presence will surprise you in ever so pleasant ways. Here in this section, I’ll be covering the ways you can increase your presence.
People with a strong presence are INTERESTED in others. Even if it’s just for a moment. They are also PRESENT and in the moment. Like one of the most famous law: Give and Receive. People are present give to others and in return, they get the admiration, attention, and focus right back.
When you are out speaking to people practice the art of listening without thinking or judging. The better you are at this the more others will see you as the most interesting person alive. People in our modern day and age are very judgemental, which completely kills presence. If people sense they are being judged they will back off or avoid you altogether.
Practice listening to people while fully accepting who they are at this moment of time. By doing this you validate their sense of self and avoid any ego issues. Give the other person your full focus with as much positive energy you can muster up.
Because this part of developing a strong presence is a MUST I am going to repeat it one more. When speaking to others make sure you focus your attention on them. What makes them great, their likes, their fears, etc. Really focus on what they’re saying. Practice, practice, practice. Pretend as if what they are saying is the most important thing in the world(if you have to).
What this translates(if done correctly) is a sort of “vibe” or “frequency” and it says “I find you interesting. I like you. Please keep talking.” And as a results, this will generate a sort of emotion. This emotion will generate in them and their emotions will then be attached to you. What does that mean? When they look back in their memories speaking to you they will remember this strong and powerful vibe.
Despite what most people say everyone wants to feel good about themselves and just generally speaking. People rather feel better than worse. In their minds they will remember speaking to the most interesting person in the world, that’s YOU by the way. You created this effect without even saying anything. And this is because when it comes to us humans the words are not as important as the vibes you get from someone.
Let’s wrap this up now…
Gerardo How About The Secret To Presence
Oh right, good memory you got there. Animals in the animal kingdom job is to survive, gather wealth and find a mate to F*CK and make a baby. Okay, what does this have to do with presence? It has everything to do with presence. In fact, if you master this one piece here, you can disregard everything else I just mentioned.
The secret to presence in two words is called “Animal Magnetism.” In the jungle male animals fight to the death for their female counterpart. Sometimes in a literal manner and sometimes not. Sometimes they just increase their value in the market making themselves more in demand. Naturally, this will draw more and more potential mates.
Humans are another type of animal called “human.” Actually, we split from chimpanzee not too long. Around 100,000 years ago. This means all throughout history we have been animals a lot longer than “humans.” Well, “modern humans” to be exact.
All humans want more of two things: Love and Sex. And #3 is money(or wealth), but since we talking about presence money is not so important for this article.
The implication I’ve hoped you arrived at is make them desire you will naturally increase your presence. And I don’t mean just desire for a little chit-chat.
How do you do this? I’m glad you asked.
This is the energy that no man or women can refuse. If you are a guy and you generate this sort of vague, mysterious, and powerful energy you can expect to have any single girl back at your bedroom.
Every single guy since the question was formed – How to get more sex? This is it. As cryptic and simple as it sounds. By boosting your presence and sexual energy you can draw people in. People will want to be around you. People will beg you for your time and attention. Others will feed needy for you. You will be the awe of their attention.
Let’s be honest people are so desperate for this kind of person. They have to go through 100s of conversation to just meet that one person who has it. You are the one they are waiting on. You are the diamond among the rocks.