Having fun is one of the most high vibrational things. Happy people are having fun and not causing others to suffer or be put down by life. Being sorry for yourself and seeking self-pity is a low vibe thing. Not a bad low vibe. But it means one is seeking pity or sympathy. Which are not too low vibes in the spectrum, but they are not particularly high either.
Remember life is all about having fun.
If you are suffering and hating life what is the point?!
When having fun let others express themselves as themselves.
Also, stop hoarding all the fun and spread the love around. People will love you for it.
No one likes love that is serve serving.
Love and fun is GIVING NOT TAKING.