Overlay Relationships

People have multiple personalities, parts, fragments, etc. People are not really static as we think they are. So sometimes, when we watch a youtube video of someone we think this is who they are, but, that’s just one piece of who they are.

Scammers leverage this fact very often. They promise you one thing but, never actually plan on giving you anything sort of benefit. They talk a big game, but, when the push comes to shove their true nature will always be revealed. And God hates scammers FYI.

Overlay relationship is essentially, an idea of a person that is on top of what you think they are. They are not actually this way or that way. That is just who they are in that very moment. Often times we get attached to the idea of people and who they are, but any idea of someone is really just but a brief moment. Because you are moving one place to the next place in awareness consistently.

Overlay can be seen in the dating game, when women portray they sweet and innocent, but are secretly manipulative and cunning. They do this because they are looking for a prey to feast on. Women naturally are sneaky by nature(that’s part of their DNA). Everything is about survival and enhancing one’s ability to live and survive in the world. Yet, everything is all about love, and then at some point you can say there is an overlap to this. Everything is about love essentially.

How to spot fake people or people who in congruent? See how they treat their friends, family, animals, etc. See how they act even outside when they are with you. This will reflect their behaviors a lot more.

It’s important you see past the smokes and mirrors. The person you see in front of you might not be who they really are in real life. And that is why you have to look beyond what they say or do. You have to listen to your emotions about whether you can love this person unconditionally, and or if this person is capable of loving you unconditionally. When there is a turmoil or resistance in the relationship usually this means there is a mismatch. In that case you have to pull out the relationship. Sometimes when a bee goes to a certain flower it does this to take the necter. But, it doesn’t actually like the taste of quality of the necter.

Similarly, in our dating life, and in relationships you have to remember that not everyone is your friend. Not everyone you can trust. Some people are full of hate. Does this mean you avoid them completely? Not, really, you can be around them sometimes. But, keep in mind if you relationships are draining you of time and energy, and resources then that is a recipe for a failed relationship. Your relationship should inspire help you grow. Help you to overcome your issues and trouble. Ultimately, your life should feel better in the relationship. It should not feel like hard work.

Hard work in a relationship usually means there is an issue with the relationship. You want to actually avoid people who ask for too much and take much. You also want to avoid people who do not provide value to you. Because this is clearly undesirable. It is also highly unattractive when a women ask for too much, complains too much, and stresses you out too much. A beautiful women who is of God would not bitch, whine, complain, etc. So make sure you find women are radiate pure love, and pure compassion. Avoid women who are obviously trying to waste your time, make you play the victim, are insecure, are liars, are manipulators. These set the basis for a transnational relationship. God hates transnational relationships because a transnational relationships is not based of love. So avoid toxic people who drain your time and energy. You cannot be with everyone all the time. That means you have to stop being too nice to everyone and sometimes learn how to say no.