Should Dating Be Hard Work?

In the the beginning it will always be difficult, but there comes a point in time when it should become easy.

You and the other person naturally like each other and would prefer keeping the other around, as opposed to try to get some one else.

Some people, plenty of women think relationships and drama are the same thing.

No, not quite. It is more accurate to say that drama does occur in relationships, but they are not the same.

A lot of women think dating is supposed to be hard and challenging all the time.

And if it is not, it is rather boring.

These women have not properly matured just yet.

Those women do not really want a relationship, but wants, the roller coaster experience.

Meaning she does not want a real relationship she just wants to have fun.

And you know what that is perfectly okay.

If a girl just wants to have her fun, not a problem.

She is entitled to have all the fun she wants.

But, I hate it when girls just want to have fun and say they want a real man.

No, they want a man to have drama back and fourth and put up with their non-sense.

And it’s like look sweetie, you don’t want a relationship, you are just bored and lonely.

And it’s okay if you don’t want a relationship some people are not ready for one, and that’s perfectly okay.

But, don’t go bashing men as a collective and saying there are no good men out there, when you are a spoiled brat.

These type of women have not fully matured yet, and just looking for fun.

When you find someone you truly love and admire it feels blissful and inner peace.

The relationship is like your personal sanctuary and not a war zone with your lover.

Some women have had nothing but relationships can’t tell the difference between abuse and a relationship.

They think because mom and dad abused them in the past that a relationship is nothing but arguing and fighting all the time.

And when they meet their new lover all they want to do is argue with them.

Because, that’s what they grew up with, not knowing, that is not love, or a relationship for that matter.

That is just simply entertainment something to do while you are bored and have nothing better to do.

These type of women don’t know how to be in a relationship, and they just talk, and talk(women are great talkers by the way).

These women are confused within their own selves, because, they think they want one thing and they say they want one thing, but, they do a whole other.

That is female nature for you.

Your job as a man is to learn how to ground and keep them stabilized.