Forgive, but don’t let the same mistake to be repeated.
When you set a boundary, and your partner disrespects the boundary.
It means she doesn’t respect you.
Honest mistakes can happen at times.
Just be aware sometimes, they try to be sneaky and see if they can get away with doing the same crime or sin.
OBJECTION!
Stop them dead on their tracks.
They have committed another crime.
The more you let your partner get away with crimes the more crimes they do and the less respect they have for you, and the less attraction they have for you.
So really it’s in your best interest to set boundaries for disrespectful partners.
When your partner does something negative to harm your energy, they are being disrespectful.
This is why you set the boundary, to stop the crime or sin to be repeated.
If they repeat the same crime multiple times we have a problem.
Now, we either end the relationship, make an ultimatum and lastly walk away from the relationship out of self-respect.
Friend, I wish the game wasn’t like this.
Women are programmed to be attracted to certain behaviors.
I am only playing the game to win.
I will do what it takes to win the game.
Life is a game sadly, and you have to learn how to play.
A lot of women have issues with this because it takes away the raw emotional feeling of love.
Love is actually pretty simple, but people make it very difficult.
Love is about doing LESS. Like way LESS.
If it was up to me, I would be unconditionally loving to all human life.
But, it’s rather difficult to do so in the current state of the universe.
Love is the hardest vibration to achieve for good reason.
You are completely transparent and vulnerable.
That is true fearlessness.
Power? People are impressed by power.
Let me tell you, the mindset of power is INCREDIBLY EASY.
The mindset of power is basically BE SELFISH and don’t think about anyone or anything but yourself.
Nothing hard about that.
Out of the three paths Power, Wisdom, Love. Power is the easiest path of the three. It’s also pretty recommended because of how easy it is and you gain a lot of advantages early on. But, Wisdom and Love win later but take a longer time to master.
What is difficult is being a good person in today’s world.
You have a bunch of kids in adult bodies with their big mouths, egos, etc. running around.
As I said, if it was up to me, I would be loving and compassionate to all.
But, society has a mixbag of people operating on different types of levels.
So you have to adjust yourself accordingly.
In a relationship, if you have to choose between love or respect pick respect.
Unfortunately, this is part of the game, especially for the ages of 30+.
If you are below 30, it’s more spontaneous and relaxing.
People are figuring out life so they are more willing to tolerate certain things.
People have less experience so they are more open-minded.
People who are 30+ have so much baggage you have to filter out.
They have collected a lot of behavior and habits that are toxic for a relationship.
If they don’t want to change, then they should stay single.
Because in a relationship no one will tolerate disrespect.
Even the nicest person in the world, will eventually grow tired of one-sided and disrespectful relationships.
From your partner, if they are giving you the very bare minimum effort, then you do less as well.
This is called Matching.
You give them what they give you.
Some people complain about this.
That other people ‘should’ do more despite blah blah blah.
Then how come they don’t do more? Of course, they have excuses.
Some people think their $1 bill is worth $1000.
Energy is TRADE.
If you give $1 worth of energy no one is going to give you $1000 worth of energy.
The person who gives $1 is lazy, selfish, and afraid.
They want the other person to do most of the work while putting in no effort in the relationship.
This is the world we live in today.
People want it all and they don’t want to do anything for it.
Leave relationships that do not serve you or help you grow.
Relationships that are too draining will cause you to be exhausted physically, mentally, and emotionally.
I am very grateful to all those who helped me during my dark times.
But, I also humbled myself when I sought help.
People were giving me a vibe boost here and there when I was in a depressive state, and I will always appreciate those people.
In return, I wanted to pass it down, and be patient with people who are operating from low vibrations.
BUT, they end up biting the hand that feeds them.
I am trying to help heal them, and they bite my hand.
Go figure.
Then they stab me in the back.
This is why you command respect.
Stop tolerating garbage energy and trash people in your relationships.
Some of us are getting too old to be wasting time and energy for people who are still playing catch up.
I like helping people and I enjoy healing people.
But, if they are going to bite my hand, then
I am not for you.