We’ve covered multiple times in here but, there is no “better future”.
Wouldn’t it be better if you should move towards your goal and happiness and still have fun in your day to day life?
Ironically, being too serious, or rushing the process will worsen the process.
You might be able to get financial success, but, your state won’t be of happiness.
Your state will be somewhat stressed.
Which is why it’s very important to just take where you are at today and move slowly towards the next step.
If you lose the “spark” then it will become nothing more than a job.
You have to remember what made you start in your journey and what is your mission.
If your mission doesn’t move you then perhaps it’s time for another mission.
One that does move you.
Because there is a logical reasoning and a real reasoning behind why we do things.
Truth is we lie to ourselves about nearly everything.
And to make this more complex meaning and definitions are not static, everything can be constantly be redefined.
There is nothing wrong with having goals, but just remember your goals is not the point to life itself, and is not the key to being happy.
The way you think and feel in this present moment is the secret to living a happy life.
Life can be boring, real boring.
If you learn to enjoy your life with whatever it you got while moving towards your dreams it will better.
You will be moving towards your goals while enjoying life.
Making life fun is a key factor to a happy lifestyle.
People create all types of goals for all different reasons:
impress friends and family, peer pressure, to look cool, it’s the right answer, etc.
But if you are not happy in your life then what is the point?
Your priority should always be in your personal happiness.
If you are sad or miserable that is revealing to you that you are not fulfilling a deep desire of yours.
There is something underneath it all that is missing.
We humans have this thing where the grass is greener on the other side.
We think friends, family, etc. have it better.
But, you want to know the truth? They don’t.
They have it relatively the same and most would probably say underneath it all they are suffering just as bad or worse.
But we are not here to compare whose life is worse as that is a waste of time.
We are here to have fun with life and appreciate the moment for what it is.
A moment, one of many moments.
If you can focus on your good on the things that make you happy you will always be happy, and be living the type of life you want.
Yes goals are fine and all, but they are not main point of life.
The point of goals is to ensure you are moving closer to your personal happiness not to give you a large to-do list.