One hack that is not very “sexy” to get people to do what you want is to show people you care.
A lot of people spend plenty of time trying to learn what to say and what to do they forget this very simple thing.
Which is showing you care(compassionate) is a powerful form of influence.
A lot of times people pay look at the words and forget it’s not always the word it’s also the underlying energy or vibe.
For example, if you give an advice to someone in a very emotionless way and also very uninterested, this will most likely not have much impact.
People who are arrogant display tons of shadow energy which offends people.
The way they give advice sounds like an insult, which as a result makes you NOT want to take the advice.
Ironically, some people like this blame(blame deflection) other people.
Yet, they don’t realize it is the way they projected the energy which caused others to feel offended.
We are always communicating something about ourselves or how we feel about others.
By showing people you care and are interested in their well being you will influence people much more so.
All influential leaders have this type of vibe(charisma) of caring about the well being of their followers.
By showing people you care, you will be surprised at how others respond to your advice or suggestion.
Remember people are picking up on your energy(vibe,frequency, etc) when you project your vibe they are picking up on the feeling of it.
Which they either resonate with it or don’t.
Some people will never take your advice no matter.
Some people just need a bit of tweaking…
This is when being adaptable and flexible is very helpful.
Not everyone responds to the same energy(words, language, vibes, etc) if you are a leader it’s your job to lead your followers.
We are all humans and we go through tons of pain and sufferings.
And showing people you get them makes them feel understood.
I don’t know about you, but me, personally I love it when people care.
It makes what they say feel much more real and sincere.
As opposed to “consciously” trying to brainwash you and manipulate you.
It feels very cringey and creepy when someone is trying to manipulate you and you KNOW what they are doing…
It’s like are you really trying to brainwash me to my face.
When in doubt, let them understand you intuitively, and avoid trying to jam their conscious minds too much(especially if you are short on time).
A lot of times people just need the very basic when it comes to communication and they will get the gist of what you are saying.
In short, when you show people you care and interested in their well being, you will be SURPRISED at how responsive and they may actually listen to what you have to say.
Making deep human to connection is about sincere relationships.